.
Thor is my main man, but I’m normally a DC girl. Still undeniably awesome.
The Avengers get a Hangover
(Source: catching-everlark, via ziallsexual)
(via youreaneomaxizoomdweebie)
and is literally dating a twenty five year old.
What the fuck is this shit?
What do her super protective parents think?
What the actual fuck.
I was sorted into Ravenclaw on Pottermore, and my wand is a 13 1/4 in. laurel with a phoenix feather core and good pliability (though I know that’s a debatable attribute).
Find me. :)
AvisLeviosa20504
.
fartwithheadphoneson:
Sure, but I have no need to request dignity. I have dignity. I don’t “need” it from a stranger who is merely trying to exchange pleasantries. My telling him that my Mom died would teach him no lesson.
I believe that we can only be victimized by the words and comments of others if we allow ourselves to be. I allowed my thoughts to wander over to, “no I don’t need a mothers day card you asshole, she’s dead.” and that was MY doing, not his. He’s not an asshole. He’s not necessarily insensitive. And my sharing that with him would do absolutely no good. It’s certainly not what I want to put out in the world.
I mastered my own feelings by being able to disconnect from them in that moment and to smile and tell him to have a good night. There would be no use in upsetting him just because I was upset. He meant no harm, so he inflicted no harm. I inflicted it upon myself by allowing myself to think that way, if only for a moment.
It’s not good or bad for him to assume I have a mother. Most people have a mother. If he went around assuming people didn’t, that’d be odd. Him being more aware that some people have mothers who died recently wont do anything but make him feel bad.
We all have a choice in our interactions. We can act as though the outside world is the source of our problems, or we can own that we are actually the source of all of our results. The latter is a more powerful way to live, and it’s what I personally choose to practice.
I have had so many moments like this. You smile, and move on with your life. You can’t let it get to you like it tends to do. Mother’s Day is especially hard, as it’s full of constant reminders, like tweets, Facebook posts, and of course commercials and displays at stores. It hurts so badly I can’t explain, but as she said when it’s assumed that you have a mother, it’s hard not to be offended for a moment before realizing that it’s silly.
[Flash 9 is required to listen to audio.]
volttheeshock:
B.O.B - So Good
(via ziallsexual)